Category: Friendships

Music Strengthens Friendships

My year-long series, New Year; New Types of Friends now moves to examples of friendships in the world of music. From backstage hang-outs and long-time creative partnerships to enthusiasts who bond over a specific band, friendships over music help strengthen our social bond and connection as friends. There are several examples of friendships and numerous songs that teach us about companionship, camaraderie, support, and brotherhood. Although I’m not a trained musician, nor can I carry a tune, I do love to listen to music and will provide some examples to show how music helps develops close friendships. Music Strengths Our Social Bonds English composer, Sir Malcolm Henry Arnold (1921 – 2006) once said, “Music is the social act of communication among people, a gesture of friendship, the strongest there is.”  There are many reasons why music strengthens our social connections. They bond over a specific genre or band. They like

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A Friendship to Infinity and Beyond

Friendship is a recurring theme in films by Walt Disney Studios, especially their animated productions. As I continue the subset of examples of animated friendships in my series, New Year; New Types of Friends, the friendship of Woody and Buzz Lightyear in the Toy Story movies, shows us how moving a friendship beyond its comfort zone can provide opportunities to grow in character.   About Disney’s Pixar Pixar Animated Studios is a computer animation studio known for its critically and commercially successful feature films. Based in Emeryville, California, Pixar was purchased by The Walt Disney Company in 2006 from Apple co-founder Steve Jobs, its majority shareholder after its spin-off from Lucasfilm Ltd in 1986. Pixar’s mascot Luxo Jr. is a desk lamp from the studio’s 1986 short film of the same name. The studio uses RenderMan Interface Specification a technology that turns three-dimensional scenes into digital photorealistic images.  Pixar has produced 26

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Friends Who Help You Learn From Your Past

One of my favorite movies is Disney’s The Lion King because there are many messages that apply to our lives as men and especially to our friendships. My next post in the series, New Year; New Types of Friends, continues the subset of examples of animated friendships. In this post, I highlight lessons from some friendships that show us how to confront our past and live more worry-free in order to become the men God designed us to be.  One is the lovable happy-go-lucky meerkat, Timon, and his kindhearted, sensitive friend, Pumbaa, a warthog. This fun-loving duo shows us that we all need loyal friends to lean on during difficult times.  The other comes from Rafiki, the wise baboon who helps young Simba remember who he is and where he comes from. In each of their own ways, Simba’s friends help him overcome the lies he was told about his

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