Author: Rich Gorecki

Better Manhood: Use Your Masculinity Properly

This series about creating a roadmap for better manhood brings us to the next aspect: mature men know how to use their masculinity properly.  My initial post for this series, Time for a Change, explained that I want to expand the discussion about a man’s need for better friendships, which I believe is critical to good and proper manhood. The second post, The Secrets to Becoming a Real (Godly) Man stated I want to change the optics of proper manhood since the world needs more good and godly men. I then began laying down the foundation for this roadmap for better manhood. In Start Being a R-E-A-L Man Here, I provided an acrostic that a real man Rejects passivity, Engages with God (and others), Accepts his responsibility, and Leads courageously. Subsequent posts on A Man’s Identity, Discovering Your Purpose, and A Man and His Worldview completed the bedrock layer for

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Better Manhood: Develop a Proper Worldview

My series about creating a roadmap for better manhood continues with another important aspect: a well-thought-out worldview. After writing about A Man’s Identity and Discovering Your Purpose, the next aspect of becoming a mature man is a well-thought-out worldview to direct your life and decision-making. Your worldview is the loudest voice that influences whether he becomes a mature man or not. It also helps you navigate difficult situations, especially when it comes to learning to use your masculine traits for good. What is a Worldview? According to dictionary.com, Worldview is a comprehensive conception or philosophy of the universe and of humanity’s relation to it. Most often, one’s worldview is built on a religious, philosophical, scientific, political, or cultural foundation. Many times, several of these components combine to form someone’s worldview.   Your worldview is the lens through which you view, interpret, and engage in the reality of life to help

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Better Manhood: Discovering Your Purpose as a Man

My current series about changing the optics for manhood and masculinity continues with more work toward creating a roadmap that develops better men. In my last post, A Man’s Identity: Knowing Who You Are and Whose You Are, I stated the first step to better manhood is knowing the differences between being a “male” and a “man.” Maturity as a man means you learn to use your masculine attributes and experiences for good. In this post, I explain how men can find their purpose, but that men of God realize they have a higher purpose, which is to glorify God in all they do. Why Do We Need to Find Purpose? Just as I began the last post, let’s start with the “why” as in why a man needs to find his purpose.  During my research on this topic, the word “responsibility” came up repeatedly. This further validates my belief

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