Category: Wisdom for Men

Reflections on Year 6: Too Many Men Are Still Failing

December 30, 2024 No Comments

Since starting this blog, my practice has been to write an annual summary of the recent year’s posts. This year’s theme, “Wisdom for Men” was purposely geared to a more general audience of men, regardless of their religious affiliation or spirituality. But I realized there is still work to do. Despite what you read in the media, too many males are falling behind in school, at work, and in their families. They are struggling with loneliness, isolation, abuse, and addictions. Even after nearly 300 posts, self-publishing a book, and several speaking engagements, men still need deeper, more authentic friendships because the problems of boys and men persist. Males are Struggling In his recent book, Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do About It, Richard Reeves examines the alarming trends well known to social scientists but not present in the

The Spiritually-Balanced Man

October 28, 2024 No Comments

My current series about Becoming a Well-Balanced Man now moves to the spiritual side which encompasses beliefs, self-awareness & reflection practices, ethics & morality, and connecting with something larger than yourself. I believe men need spiritual balance because it shows that you think beyond yourself and understand how to love and serve others. It also shows humility, which is an important mark of becoming a mature adult. Earlier posts in the series described The Benefits of Becoming a Balanced Man which helps boost a man’s confidence and build self-esteem. Finding steadiness in his emotional, mental, and physical health, along with stability in his financial and social life, creates balance, fosters adaptability, and develops resilience to the challenges of life. Finding proper balance in these areas is often the difference between guys who act like a 45-year-old “boy” and those who are responsible adult men. About Spiritual Balance Achieving spiritual balance

The Socially-Balanced Man

October 21, 2024 No Comments

This series about Becoming a Well-Balanced Man describes why being stable and steady in several aspects of life is critical for men. I’ve explained The Benefits of Becoming a Balanced Man which includes increased his satisfaction, happiness, and fulfillment with life. In The Emotionally-Balanced Man and The Mentally-Balanced Man, I wrote about the difference between emotional and mental health since stability in both areas helps us avoid reacting negatively in most situations. In The Physically-Balanced Man, I described the importance of having a well-rounded exercise program, good nutrition, rest & relaxation, and managing your overall wellness. The post about The Financially-Balanced Man described ways to support your adult lifestyle without undue worry or stress. Financial stability also provides security to pursue your long-term aspirations. This next post describes why men need a healthy and balanced social life on their way to becoming the best version of a mature adult man. Lonely