Category: Basic Training

Better Manhood: Develop a Proper Worldview

My series about creating a roadmap for better manhood continues with another important aspect: a well-thought-out worldview. After writing about A Man’s Identity and Discovering Your Purpose, the next aspect of becoming a mature man is a well-thought-out worldview to direct your life and decision-making. Your worldview is the loudest voice that influences whether he becomes a mature man or not. It also helps you navigate difficult situations, especially when it comes to learning to use your masculine traits for good. What is a Worldview? According to dictionary.com, Worldview is a comprehensive conception or philosophy of the universe and of humanity’s relation to it. Most often, one’s worldview is built on a religious, philosophical, scientific, political, or cultural foundation. Many times, several of these components combine to form someone’s worldview.   Your worldview is the lens through which you view, interpret, and engage in the reality of life to help

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Better Manhood: Discovering Your Purpose as a Man

My current series about changing the optics for manhood and masculinity continues with more work toward creating a roadmap that develops better men. In my last post, A Man’s Identity: Knowing Who You Are and Whose You Are, I stated the first step to better manhood is knowing the differences between being a “male” and a “man.” Maturity as a man means you learn to use your masculine attributes and experiences for good. In this post, I explain how men can find their purpose, but that men of God realize they have a higher purpose, which is to glorify God in all they do. Why Do We Need to Find Purpose? Just as I began the last post, let’s start with the “why” as in why a man needs to find his purpose.  During my research on this topic, the word “responsibility” came up repeatedly. This further validates my belief

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Better Manhood: Identity – Knowing Who You Are and Whose You Are

I’m in the early stages of a series that I hope begins to change the optics of manhood and masculinity today. In the prior posts, Time for a Change, The Secrets to Becoming a Real (Godly) Man, and Start Being a R-E-A-L Man Here, I suggested the need to develop a better roadmap for becoming a man. In this next post, I will provide what I believe is the starting line on the roadmap to manhood begins by understanding your identity. I follow it with one about discovering your purpose, then unpack other points of the roadmap throughout the series.  Why a Roadmap for Manhood? As Simon Sinek would say, let’s start with the “why” for the roadmap. It’s simple. We need more men to become better men.  Throughout history, males have misused their masculinity. Even today, it appears many guys have “gone off the road” because they don’t understand

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