How to Strengthen Your Friendship

This next post about techniques that develop Better Male Friendships describes how to strengthen a relationship with another man into a type of friendship that I believe every man needs, one that I call the GodBuddy. This technique provides the consistency and focus needed to ensure your deeper, more authentic friendship lasts.  Men Need Brothers; Not Just Friends With this series, my hope is to help reverse the negatives trends for boys and young males by showing men how to develop and maintain better friendships. Due to the recent epidemic of loneliness, too many boys and young men are failing. Studies show alarming rates of unemployment, a gap in educational achievement, and increased patterns of suicide. The Decline of Friendship, leaves many males today feeling lonely and having no close friends that they can confide in. We need better men to train and mentor boys and young males about proper

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How to Deepen and Sharpen Your Friendship

My next post for this series on Better Male Friendships describes another aspect that transforms your good friendship into the type of friends that I believe every man needs. It’s a step that adds depth and “sharpens” your relationship into what I call a GodBuddy friendship; the deeper, more authentic type that will help men navigate the challenges of adulthood best.  Why Men Need Better Friends Throughout this series, I have presented evidence of a Decline of Friendship. Reports shows that 57% of men feel lonely, and 15% claim to have zero close friends, which leads experts to believe we have reached an epidemic of loneliness in our country. Sadly, the side effects are that boys and young men are failing by many measures, as demonstrated by the rising rates of suicide and unemployment. There is also a widening gap in educational achievement. This leaves too many lacking the skills

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Finding a Bond with Another Man

As I continue my series about the need for Better Male Friendships, this next post is about developing a bond that moves your relationship in the direction of a deeper, more authentic friendship that I believe every man needs: one I call a GodBuddy.  First, let’s briefly recap why men need better friendships. Many Men are Lonely and Struggling  Recent studies show that 57% of men report feeling lonely and 15% of men claim to have no close friends at all,. This leads to a genuine concern about the Decline of Friendship, especially its impact on males. Recent data shows that boys and young men are failing by many measures. Just last week, California Governor Gavin Newsom issued an executive order to expand access to mental health support, along with educational and workforce opportunities for men in their 20s and early 30s, who are experiencing increasing rates of suicide, unemployment,

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